Sex Education & Toy Guides
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Bliss Bazaar A Go-Go: A Sexy Winter Wonderland is Coming to Brooklyn!
Mark your calendars for December 8th, because Bliss Bazaar A Go-Go is taking over the Brooklyn Art Haus with a night of playful indulgence you won’t...
Bliss Bazaar: A Day of Exploration and Empowerment
Ridgewood, Queens, NYC — Get ready for a day of excitement, enlightenment, and empowerment at The Bliss Bazaar! Carly S., the popular blogger behind...
Elevate Your Play: Explore Vibrating Butt Plugs
Let’s embark on an exciting journey to explore the world of vibrating butt plugs. These adult toys have gained immense popularity, and today, we're...
Choosing the Perfect Rabbit Vibrator: A Guide to Tailoring Pleasure
If you've ever been curious about a rabbit vibrator's dual-stimulation design, you're not alone. The draw of this pleasure tool is not only in its...
Best Barbie Themed Sex Toys. Come On Barbie, Let’s Go Party.
Discover a playful world of pleasure with Barbie themed sex toys. Barbiecore is making a resurgance and I couldn't be happier. Perfect for Barbie...
How To Use Grinding Toys For The Most Pleasure
There hasn't been a new category of sex toys in a while, but along came grinding toys. And folks that like to hump, grind, and trib against objects...
Everything You Need To Know About Double Penetration
When people think about double penetration they either get really excited or terrified. There are helpful tips and tricks to know before you dive...
The Best Halloween-Themed Sex Toys For 2022
Attention sexy goths, horror nerds, witches, and Halloween enthusiasts: It's time to treat yourselves this Halloween in a way that's even sweeter...
How to explore your backdoor with hemorrhoids
While hemorrhoids can be an actual pain in the ass, they're way more common than you think. Many people want to know how to explore your backdoor...
How to Map Your Pleasure with CBD-infused Silicone Lubricant
When CBD is used topically on inimate skin it can heighten sensitivity without warming or tingling like other stimulating products. Not that there's...
Spooky Sex Toys to Make Halloween even Sexier
Halloween is coming and if you’re anything like me, you’re going to want to cum too! And what’s better then new fun ways to reach orgasm especially when they’re on theme for spooky season. Are you on the hunt for spooky sex toys to make your Halloween even sexier?
Ultimate Guide To Safely Sexting
While it might not be polite conversation, humans have been writing and creating erotica depictions since the dawn of time. After all, as soon as...
How To Use A Wand On All Bodies
Wands are a part of Pleasure history Wands are old reliable when it comes to vibrators, and it’s for good reason. When you think about classic...
How to Become A Porn Star
So you want to become a porn star, or maybe you're just curious how to do it with no plans to actually take the plunge. The accessibility of the...
Tango X & Touch X Upgrade the Best Vibes To Be Even Better
The Tango and Touch from We-Vibe are some of gold standard in rechargeable toys. While I haven't previously reviewed The Tango, or the Touch,...
Get Out Of Your Orgasm Rut & Intensify Your Orgasm
Looking to get out of your orgasm rut? Did you accidently train your body to reach your big O in one way and now you're trying to figure out how the...
Exciting New Penis Toy Review: The Arcwave
I bet you're here for this exciting new penis toy review: The Arcwave. Penis toy reviews all seem the same, so I had high hopes to the Arcwave. I'm...
The Exciting Sex It’s Safe To Have Right Now
Pandemic got you down? Dogging might be the perfect sex solution that's safe to do with strangers, even in the middle of a pandemic! But what is...
Perverts Guide To Swingers Parties
Sex parties are becoming more in more popular. But keep in mind, that swinger parties have captivating curious couples and singles alike since the...
How To Make Watching Porn Even Better
We're all doing it: Watching porn. The data is not to be argued with. Pornography is responsible for a huge chunk of all internet traffic. And this...
How To Make WebCam Models Fall In Love With You
Webcams offer a personalized touch unparalleled to other formats of porn. Unlike other types of porn, you can actually interact with the people you...
Importance of Knowing your STI Status
2020 has been quite a year so far. Why would knowing your STI status be on your list? With a pandemic, anti racist uprisings and the highest...
Animal Crossing New Horizons BDSM Guide
We all know rule 34 of the internet. Or if you're unfamiliar with "the rules of the internet" it is a list of general concepts and agreements of the...
Sex Toys to Enhance Blow Jobs
Blow jobs, they don't call them jobs for nothing. Sex toys can enhance a bj, or just take some of the work out of it. Between keeping a rhythm,...
Commotion Cha Cha Thrusting Rabbit Review
With an unbelievably powerful thrusting motion, the Commotion Cha Cha Silicone Rechargeable Thrusting Dual-Stimulation Vibrator fulfills your wildest fantasies.
Hack Your Harness: Make it more pleasurable to wear
Wearing a strap on harness can be an empowering experience, or it can be an awkward time. In general most strap on harness guides focus on the pleasure and experience of the bottom, or person receiving penetration. While giving your partner pleasure can be fun in itself, options for making it more pleasurable for the wearer are out there! There are lots of ways to not only make it more comfortable, but add things you like. It all depends on how you want to make strap-ons more fun for the wearer.
Number One Laboratory BJ Dildo Review
About The Number One Laboratory BJ Dildo features a funnel-shaped hollow core which opens up to a suction cup base. With an open hole at the end,...
Sexy Mercury Retrograde Survival Guide
What is Mercury Retrograde? You've probably heard a friend blame a wacky occurrence on Mercury Retrograde, or seen a meme making fun of it, but what...
Cunning Linguistics
I teach about oral sex all the time, and people seem to want a play guide. Fortunately for us humans, we're all unique beings with unique...
Blush Aria Flutter Tongue Simulator Review
The Aria Flutter Tongue Vibrating Silicone Clitoral Simulator arouses and excites with the flickering motion of its soft silicone tips! Flutter Tongue delivers 7 different vibration modes and quiet operation. Its fluttering tips create tantalizing sensations against the clitoris or nipples.
Condom Sense: How to make condoms more fun
Making condoms sound playful is easy. There are tons of cutesy names like love glove, woody hoodie, peter parka.... But making up funny names...
Improve your sex through breath
Being mindful and intentional about breath is one of the easiest (and free!) ways to improve the bedroom experience. It’s also one of the easiest...
Happy Girth Day To All Size Royalty
If you've never heard the term size queen, it's basically a term that is slang for a person, originally a gay person, who prefers their sexual...
Crash Pad Episode 281: La Muxer Diosa and Zoie Blackheart
From Crash Pad about the episode "Oh my Goddess! Magic is in the air when Zoie Blackheart summons La Muxer Diosa with an appealing offering......
Spoil a Sex Worker
We all know a sex worker, even if we don't realize it. So how can we spoil those that society forgets? With FOSTA/SESTA and internet censorship...
California Dreaming Santa Monica Starlet Rabbit By CalExotics Review
"The playful California Dreaming™ Collection brings luxurious fantasies to life with the passionate Santa Monica Starlet Rabbit...
Sex Toys I Want To Try In 2019
Even people like me who have tons of toys want new things! Here's my list of stuff I'm looking forward to trying and hoping I can get my hands on...
Sutil Love Potion #23 Review
SUTIL Love Potion #23 All Natural Massage Oil tantalizes your senses with the luxury of exotic fragrance and the exquisite sensation of silky smooth...
Give The Gift Of Nudes
Who doesn't love a good dirty picture? I know I love (consentually) getting a good dirty pic from some cutie I'm dating or even getting to know....
Thinking of buying someone a sex toy for the Holidays?
It’s that time of year when people want to get special gifts for their significant other, their new lover, or hey even themselves. Let’s all keep in...
What Would Beyonce Buy? Why Are Luxury Toys Worth It?
I recently taught a workshop about Luxury toys, called what would Beyonce buy. It was a slightly misleading title because at the end of the...
Sex Toys Sometimes Break: How To Deal With That Emotionally And How To Care For Them.
Thanks to pop culture, with shows like Sex In The City, Broad City, Transparent, Grace And Frankie, Master Of None, etc, etc, sex toys aren’t...
Tips For Attending Your First Adult Convention
There are tons of adult conventions now From Exxxotica to Sex Expo to Xbiz retreats. It ranges from sex education focused,...
Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)
Giving a quality massage is one of those things that sounds easy to do: Oil ‘em up, rub their body in a way that feels good, bing bang boom. But...
Massage- the perfect inexpensive gift
My love language is food and gifts,but I like to think more along the lines of gifting an experience rather then things.Sure, physical gifts are...
Filthy F*cking Foods for Summer
If you've looked at my blog, or attended one of my workshops you'll see my love of aphrodisiacs. Summer, when temperatures (among other things)...
Tilted uterus sex hacks
Well first of all, what is a tilted uterus and “do I have one?” A tilted uterus is a uterus that curves in a backwards position at the cervix...
The best sex toy for every person!
If it’s your first toy, or you’re just adding to your collection. This will be your absolute favorite toy. Do you love penetration? How about...
Holiday aphrodisiacs
Typically, an aphrodisiac is defined as a food that causes arousal or enhances sexual desire. Aphrodisiacs have been around for as long as people...
10 items to make your bedroom sexier
Creating a sexy space is important to sexy times.I talk a lot about it in my guide here. Get rid of the idea that your bedroom is simply for...
Don't be scared of toys
Toys don’t have to be a solo endeavor.There are lots of toys marketed to couples, but really any toy that you want to use with a partner is a...
Dirty Talk Tips
Curious about dirty talk but don’t know why you should care. Read why dirty talk can make hot sex even hotter here. First things first. Anyone who...
Should I Try Dirty Talk?
Many folks love hearing dirty talk in the bedroom. We can lose ourselves in the heat of passion. It can also help us open up and take on a persona...
Butt Toys Guide
There’s so many options! That’s the number one thing I hear in the store I work in. So here’s a handy guide to help you at least narrow down the...
Custom Porn
So let’s say you read my last post (click here if you didn’t) and now you know exactly what porn you love and you want more of it, but there isn’t a...
Figuring out which is the right porn for you
I actually love porn. As someone who is a feminist I know it can be surprising to hear how much I love porn, especially when I know there is some...
Anal Fun Doesn’t Have To Be Penetration
I bet you always thought anal sex was when you penetrate the anus huh? Sex in general doesn’t have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the...
Sex isn’t always Penetration
Sex in general doesn’t have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act of being penetrated. Sex is pretty much anything that feels sexual....
Deep Throating: Tips from a wanna be sword swallower
The process of swallowing a sword involves more than just lining everything up and letting gravity do its thing. In order to successfully swallow a...
Strip Club 101
When you hear strip club what comes to mind? The places where slutty girls take married men’s money. Where the women clearly have low self esteem,...
Sex Toy Materials: Is your toy safe?
Sex Toy Materials are super important There are two main types that break down into more specific materials that I’ll explain. Basically there are...
How to Treat Cam Girls
Camming has forever changed the adult industry. Cam models are essentially DIY porn stars who work from home. Most performers have ultimate control...
Why you should pay for your porn
#payforyourporn! But seriously. Who actually pays for porn? However, there is some demographic research on this topic. One study showed that in...
Jelly Rubber Bummer
Jelly sex toys are the only sex toy thing I will ever say a hard no to. It is the material that most people are familiar with, especially if they...
How to create the perfect sex playlist
Nothing sets or kills the mood more than putting on some music in the bedroom. Music can help you feel comfortable and relaxed while having sex,...
Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign
Why do we even have to explain why pleasure is important for women? When I’m talking about women in this content I am speaking of people who have...
Shake the Ground: Strongest Vibes out there
There’s lots of reasons why someone would need or want a really strong vibe, and there is nothing shameful about it. Knowing what you want sexually...
Hot Sex Without Melting?
I’m fat and always feel extra hot (temperature wise!). So in the summer I feel particularly unsexy. Actual picture of me! You don’t have to be fat...
Pheromones. Make Life Sexier
Have you ever found someone particularly sexy without knowing why? It could be that you are lured in by their pheromones, invisible chemical...
A lube for every Occasion. Which is best for you?
I recently wrote about how important lube is. So now that you know you want lube, what kind should you try? There are benefits for certain types of...
Lube: Why Wetter Is Better
I work in a sex toy store and the most stigmatized but important item that we sell is lube. People seem to get offended when you ask if they have...
Peanut Butter & Jelly Toy Pairings
Sometimes people come into the shop I work at and want one magical toy to do everything for them. And while I hope they find it, that probably...
Sex Worker Witch: Magic Potions For You
If you didn’t know, not only am I a powerful Witch but I am also a proud sex worker. I have done everything in the industry from escorting and...
My advice for moving on after a broken heart
Breaking up sucks. Period. Bottom Line. Now what? Time does indeed heal all wounds. But there are some deeper ways to look at this heavily recited...
Splish Splash: Mermaid Masturbation
If you didn’t know, I’m actually a mermaid. I love water and my favorite toys are toys that are waterproof. Whatever genitals you have water...
Pride Edition: BJ tips on Aftermarket Cocks
There are tons of BJ tips for factory installed cocks out there I teach a ton of workshops in fact for people looking to perfect their techniques....
Happy Masturbation May. (AKA Why you should touch yourself!)
When you think of masturbation, what comes to mind? Do you think it’s dirty or serves no purpose? Well, you’re missing out on some great benefits....
Light my fire. Part Two: Foreplay
Setting the mood and foreplay is an important often overlooked aspect of sex. Increased arousal/lubrication, and intimacy are some key reasons to...
Light my fire. Part One: Mood setting
Setting the mood and foreplay is an important often overlooked aspect of sex and pleasure. Here’s more info on setting the mood.
Rusty Trombones: The Final Frontier?
I recently answered some questions for Cosmo about giving a Rusty Trombone, so I figured why not give my own tips. Right from the source so to speak...
3 Women Share What It’s *Really* Like To Give a Rusty Trombone
I was one of those 3 women, because I think talking about sex acts that aren’t as “mainstream” help to normalize all acts of sex and pleasure. See...
Single on Valentine’s Day? Who cares!
Sure, Valentine’s day is known as Single Awareness day but that doesn’t have to be depressing! Take the day to Treat Yo Self. Self love is the best...
Aphrodisiacs and sex toys. A match made in Heaven.
Need some invigoration in the bedroom? Sometimes life is so stressful that the last thing on our mind is sex. However, physical intimacy is an...
Guide to Pegging and Choosing the Perfect Products
Originally posted on the Stockroom blog. Here is my guest post.Guest blogger Carly S’s Guide to Pegging and Choosing the Perfect Products: Pegging...
Ode To The Magic Wand
If you know sex toys, or even if you don’t you’ve probably seen the Magic wand. The Hitachi Magic Wand (renamed as Magic Wand Original or...
A Complete Beginners Guide to Strap On Sex
Here is the link to the article. I was quoted. By Lane MooreMar 15, 2016 The idea that a cisgender woman can strap on a dildo and a harness...
How to be the best customer at every adult store
This list is for newbies and pros alike. Whether it’s your first time or the staff knows you by name; we can all use a refresher on how to not...
You Bet Your Ass… So You Want To Try Anal
So you want to try Anal?Anal sex can be a fun new activity for people. The taboo nature of it, is a thrill in itself. Ultimately the area is full of...
Bliss Bazaar A Go-Go: A Sexy Winter Wonderland is Coming to Brooklyn!
Mark your calendars for December 8th, because Bliss Bazaar A Go-Go is taking over the Brooklyn Art Haus with a night of playful indulgence you won’t...
Bliss Bazaar: A Day of Exploration and Empowerment
Ridgewood, Queens, NYC — Get ready for a day of excitement, enlightenment, and empowerment at The Bliss Bazaar! Carly S., the popular blogger behind...
Elevate Your Play: Explore Vibrating Butt Plugs
Let’s embark on an exciting journey to explore the world of vibrating butt plugs. These adult toys have gained immense popularity, and today, we're...
