Rants and Raves
Indulge in all Carly’s favorite topics: Sex toy reviews, sex education, rants, raves, & more!
I’ve Joined The Alliance of Independent Sex Toy Testers
Banding together to combat fake sex toy reviews online. I've joined the Alliance of independent sex toy testers to combat something I see too much...
The Covid19 Vaccine Made My Menstrual Cycle a Mess
Of all the side effects I was concerned about when in the planning mode of getting the Covid19 vaccine, ironically as a sexual health professional,...
The Exciting Sex It’s Safe To Have Right Now
Pandemic got you down? Dogging might be the perfect sex solution that's safe to do with strangers, even in the middle of a pandemic! But what is...
How To Make Watching Porn Even Better
We're all doing it: Watching porn. The data is not to be argued with. Pornography is responsible for a huge chunk of all internet traffic. And this...
Best Kinky Animal Crossing Fashion Codes
There is an ancient saying: “Give a person a canvas, and there will be dicks.” This is certainly true in video games. Anytime a player is given the...
Fucktober Part One
It’s right in the middle of spooky season, and everyone I know is in the midst of watching all of the Halloween classics like Hocus Pocus, the Craft, Nightmare Before Christmas and more. Have you every wondered what your favorite spooky character’s would be using during their play times?
Take your own advice
One of the best parts of being a sex educator and a blogger is being surrounded by not only tons of smart and sexy people, but people that can you...
Tips For Attending Your First Adult Convention
There are tons of adult conventions now From Exxxotica to Sex Expo to Xbiz retreats. It ranges from sex education focused,...
Mixed Race Folks aren't here for you to fetishize
What they say: I want to have mixed babies, they're so beautifulWhat I hear: You want to make my brown features more Eurocentric.When I hear folks...
#SoSS Shout our Sh*t Saturday (self care edition)
The best part of being a sexuality blogger is building community. Unfortunately for us, it's hard to promote our writings or events because of the...
What happened with O.School?
Well What Is O.School? From O.School “We offer the sex ed we all should have had. Through live streams and moderated chats, our Pleasure...
The best sex toy for every person!
If it’s your first toy, or you’re just adding to your collection. This will be your absolute favorite toy. Do you love penetration? How about...
But what are you?!
What are you? A question I’ve had to deal with since I was about 4 or 5 and I embarrassed my grandparents by being much darker then them. I remember...
Why everyone should go to Exxxotica at least once
This past weekend was the 10th anniversary of Exxxotica in New Jersey. Exxxotica is The Largest Adult Event in the USA Dedicated to Love & Sex....
Take any review with a grain of salt
sex toy reviews can be overwhelming, how do you get through all that information to pick the best toy for you?
Sex isn’t always Penetration
Sex in general doesn’t have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act of being penetrated. Sex is pretty much anything that feels sexual....
I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but…
While I support everyone on their quest for self love and body acceptance, there’s a lotof room for improvement. If you go into the body...
Why you should pay for your porn
#payforyourporn! But seriously. Who actually pays for porn? However, there is some demographic research on this topic. One study showed that in...
Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign
Why do we even have to explain why pleasure is important for women? When I’m talking about women in this content I am speaking of people who have...
#Resist
Now that it’s officially June, it’s Pride month. Pride in this current climate has a theme of resistance. I’m fortunate enough to work for a...
Femme Supremacy: No you won’t make me feel bad for being feminine.
With the release of the new Womanizer Go Product I keep seeing people complain about it. I’ve heard everything from “women like things other then...
My advice for moving on after a broken heart
Breaking up sucks. Period. Bottom Line. Now what? Time does indeed heal all wounds. But there are some deeper ways to look at this heavily recited...
Ode To The Magic Wand
If you know sex toys, or even if you don’t you’ve probably seen the Magic wand. The Hitachi Magic Wand (renamed as Magic Wand Original or...
How to be the best customer at every adult store
This list is for newbies and pros alike. Whether it’s your first time or the staff knows you by name; we can all use a refresher on how to not...
I’ve Joined The Alliance of Independent Sex Toy Testers
Banding together to combat fake sex toy reviews online. I've joined the Alliance of independent sex toy testers to combat something I see too much...
The Covid19 Vaccine Made My Menstrual Cycle a Mess
Of all the side effects I was concerned about when in the planning mode of getting the Covid19 vaccine, ironically as a sexual health professional,...
The Exciting Sex It’s Safe To Have Right Now
Pandemic got you down? Dogging might be the perfect sex solution that's safe to do with strangers, even in the middle of a pandemic! But what is...
