When people think about double penetration they either get really excited or terrified. There are helpful tips and tricks to know before you dive into double penetration and anal in general and even I can admit that the act can sound kind of intense. When you break things down and do research you can demystify even the scariest things and make them approachable. Double penetration, or when a person is penetrated at the same time in two of their orifices (for example, in the vagina, anus, or mouth), might seem like one of those fantasy porn things you’d never try in real life. Still, it can actually be incredibly pleasurable and really isn’t as intimidating as it might sound.
First things first, double penetration (Called DP for short) doesn’t always have to involve more than one person! The easiest way to get into DP is to start exploring through masturbation, sex toys, and vibrators. There are even all-in-one sex toys that put all the sensations in one compact sex toy like the Vive Rini Pulse Wave Double Penetration Vibrator. This rabbit-style dual vibe has anal beads included for one-handed double-action. Just keep in mind, you never want to put anything that’s been in your butt in your vagina without first thoroughly washing it, or you may put yourself at risk for infections like BV.
More About The Basics of Double Penetration
DP is a relatively common sex act and an exciting option to explore because there are lots of ways to play that fall under the umbrella of double penetration. While most people consider only consider DP simultaneous penetration of a vagina and anus. DP can actually be any sex act where one or more orifices (anus, vagina, mouth) are being filled with any combination of fingers, fists, penises, tongues, or sex toys including dildos, butt plugs, and ball gags counts!
The Best Sex Toys for DP
You can enjoy the C-Ringz Partner Double Penetrator to enjoy dual penetration without having to bring in an additional partner. The penetrating shaft is made of super soft silicone and the stretchy cock ring will stay in place, no matter how vigorous your activities get. The vibrating cock ring is designed to trap the blood in erections for longer-lasting playtime. This is great for those looking for a stronger erection. Bring this along in the shower or hot tub for a steamy session.
Fetish Fantasy Elite Double Trouble Silicone Strap On Stimulator or Doc Johnson The Double Dip 2 Double Penetration Anal Bead Cock Ring
Strap on a backdoor stimulator for hands-free backdoor stimulation with one of these cock ring stimulators. The penetrating shaft is made of flexible yet firm silicone that’s ideal for beginners and will stay in place, no matter how spirited your activities get. The cock ring is designed to trap the blood in erections for firmer and more sensitive erections.
NYTC Double Sided Suction Cup Or Uncover Creations Double Sided Suction Cup
Add way more versatility to your favorite dildo by adding a Double Sided Dildo Suction Cup that adds all kinds of possibilities to what you can do with your insertable sex toys. If you’re looking for a way to attach your dildo to a base, or you want to connect two dildos together, this sturdy and helpful creation comes in handy. Use the two strong suction cup ends to make a double-ended dildo.
Ruse 18 Inch Double Dildo or Colours DP Pleasures Dildo
These Double Dildos are ideal for those who need extra length to better g-spot stimulation, explore double penetration, or have partner play that’s easy to hold. The curve of this long dildo is great for g-spot massage and the easily bendable shaft means you can bend it and use it in both holes at the same time. The realistic details in the shaft are both visually appealing and enjoyably stimulating.
Vive Rini Pulse Wave Double Penetration Vibrator
If you’re looking for one sex toy that can provide all the sensations you’re looking for, you’ve found it in the Shots Vive Rini Pulse Wave Double Penetration Vibrator. This vibrator is a triple-stimulator, targeting 3 different erogenous zones to help you reach a powerful climax. The main shaft has strong vibrations and can be controlled individually. The rabbit ear external front stimulator and graduated-bead anal stimulator can be controlled simultaneously.
If you’ve been looking for a plug to wear during vaginal sex, meet Bootie Fem. A butt plug that is comfortable enough for backdoor newbies and specifically designed with double penetration in mind. It makes double penetration easier with its base asymmetry! The base of this butt plug is shorter on one side, which positions the toy to allow for easy vaginal penetration. At the same time, the bud of the toy gently tilts toward the G-spot. It’ll intensify pleasure for you and your partner alike because pressure from the inserted anal plug automatically narrows the vaginal canal. The many nerve endings located in and around the anus are incredibly sensitive to pressure and stretching.
The SpareParts Deuce is an incredibly versatile harness that’s ideal for double penetration. The Deuce can harness two dildos or a dildo and a penis. There is a second hole just below the O-ring that is lined with soft stretchable elastic which is designed to accommodate the girth of the wearer’s penis or dildo. This can also allow the second opening to act as a soft cock ring. Both openings have two small flaps on the inside of the harness so that the wearer has the choice of having the dildo base against their skin or covered for a gentler sensation.
What Does Double Penetration Feel Like?
Keep in mind that everyone’s experience will be different. Especially considering all the different ways there are to explore DP. Some of the most common descriptions that people use to describe DP are sensations that include excitement, stretching, and the feeling of fullness. Double Penetration should never cause pain or discomfort and if at any time you experience this, adjust something, or stop immediately. Things you can adjust are adding more lubricant, changing positions, sizing down the toy you’re using, etc.
Why Would Someone Want to Experiment With Double Penetration?
Double your pleasure, double your fun wasn’t a slogan for no reason. The odds are, if you’re stimulating more than one hole or erogenous zone, then you’re doubling your chances for pleasure. The experience of being filled in more than one way can create intense overall sensations. Plus the feeling of fullness is a sensation that people tend to enjoy and seek out.
Adding power dynamics and power play to exploring DP can also be a way to add additional excitement and enjoyment. The feeling of being penetrated on its own is great, but the giving partner can also experience a lot of pleasure from being in control of the act. Just be sure to communicate continuously with your partner so everyone enjoys themselves.
How to Enjoy Double Penetration (Safely & Consensually)
Communicate, communicate, communicate! Because of all the different ways to play, it means it’s extra important that everyone is on the same page and stays on the same page. Some questions to consider and talk about before starting to explore should include:
- Who will be giving and receiving? Who is being doubly penetrated?
- In what hole(s) is the receiver interested in exploring? With what insertables? In what order?
- What positions do you want to explore?
- What safer sex methods will you be using (if any)?
- Is anything off-limits? What are you not comfortable with?
- Is there a safe word?
Prep and Accessorize
Making sure you have everything you need from your nightstand and bathroom ready to go will be the easiest way to explore. Grab all your toys, lube, and anything else you’ll need.
Go Slow
It’s easier to start with one hole or one penetrative object (penis, plug, dildo) at a time. And remember that you have only so much space, so if there’s something large in one hole, the other insertable will likely have to be on the smaller side. And more importantly, remember to keep communicating!
Explore Positions
Just like there are many ways to explore double penetration, there are plenty of positions that are great for it as well! Various 69 styles and doggy styles are great to start from. If you’re uncomfortable, changing positions can make a huge difference in how it feels, so don’t be shy about mixing it up.
Don’t forget Aftercare
DP can be very intense for the receiver, so take extra care after! Be sure to address both physical and emotional needs post-event. Hydration, light massage, cuddling, and cleanup are great physical aftercare options. Southern Butter Backdoor Balm is a favorite way to warm down after any anal exploration, but always ask what your partner needs/prefers. To stay emotionally connected, consider chatting about what each of you enjoyed and what you might change next time.
Lube Is Your Best Friend
To find the perfect lube for your DP play, backdoor formulas are the best bet. Thicker formulas last longer and put a better cushion on insertables. So go forth and enjoy!!!
